celebrate like an Italian • A Subtle Revelry

celebrate like an Italian

My mom likes to shares stories from her childhood about the bar my great grandma owned in Nigara Falls. How they would close it down for any holiday, and the entire family would stream in. They’d set up tables and the ladies would cook up a feast while the kids ducked behind the bar to devour cherries and olives meant for drinks. Young and old, they would feast.Β They would celebrate – and the evening would be filled with both drinks and voices raised in celebration.

The children would end up dozing off on a chair, while the Aunts and Uncles laughed, and danced, and remembered the blessings they have.

I come from an Italian family that is large, loud, and loves to party (There are 18 cousins just on my mom’s side). I saw glimpses of it growing up as we would pile into my grandma’s small house for coffee and doughnuts after church on Sunday. Even at a young age – something about it stirred my heart. I saw it in full effect when Matt and I got married and my ENTIRE family flew across the country and closed out our reception hall dancing and celebrating- it was the best party I have ever been to.

I love my heritage and my family, and I am excitedly planning our trip to Italy next year because I want to see the country and culture up-close. I want to spend time with these people who know how to celebrate well. As a busy and bothered American, I think I have a lot to learn from their lingering dinners, coffee filled afternoons, and the connection they have to one another through celebration.

In the meantime, it is my hope that this season of feasts before us would not pass by too quickly. That we would sit, feast, dance, and enjoy theΒ simplicity that comes from sharing a meal and sharing our lives with one another.

Photography of a shared table and beautiful hands by Public Bookstore.

  1. I agree! So many times I get wrapped up in all the silly details and planning I think I miss out on just enjoying my company. Also, fun fact. My uncle owns a bar in So. Cal. and for years we would close for Thanksgiving and all go there and eat together. Fun memories.

    • Victoria

      30 October

      Carrie, that is awesome. I totally want to open up a small restaurant just to be able to close it for celebrations. So fun!

  2. LatteLove

    30 October

    SO exciting that you will be going to Italy! So many wonderful things about the country, and so many things that are very different, even from what you think they will be. You will love it (I can’t imagine anyone not).

    If you will be anywhere near Milan over a weekend, you guys should try to visit the URC church there. (my husband interned there last summer – amazing experience)

    • Victoria

      31 October

      Thanks. What a fabulous place that would be to intern! Did you travel much in the three months?

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